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Friday, September 21, 2018

Book Review: Listen to the Marriage by John Jay Osborn

This is an unusual novel. It's about a failing marriage. And you, the reader, have limited access to information about it. It reads like you are a fly on the wall in the marriage counselor's office. You know nothing of Gretchen and Steve's marriage outside of those four walls. What they tell their counselor is also all that you know. You do sometimes get to hear the thoughts of Sandy, their therapist (and sometimes her thoughts are exactly what you worry your therapist is thinking: "How can you be so obtuse, Steve?") But it's not limited third-person in the usual way. You really feel like a fourth presence in the room, but invisible and silent. And as the book really entirely takes place in the office with just these three people, it reads very much like a play. It's mostly dialogue.

Steve and Gretchen may have let things go too far before going to counseling. When one party has moved out and is dating, there's not much marriage left to save, perhaps. But you can also feel real, genuine feeling between them, even if at times they deny it. Sandy is an interesting character in that she's far from a traditional counselor. She gets very involved, very pushy, and calls Gretchen and Steve out on things most therapists wouldn't (she does acknowledge that she's unconventional--it's not that Mr. Osborn doesn't know how therapists are supposed to behave. It's much more that she and the book are more fun--and heck, Steve and Gretchen get a lot further a lot faster--than they would be in traditional therapy.)

It's a short book that packs a punch. Might put you somewhat off both therapy and marriage a bit. But really explores how relationships can end up in the places they do and how--and if they even should--patch things up.

This book is published by Farrar Straus and Giroux, a division of Macmillan, my employer.

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